What it feels like
- Heightened anxiety, irritability, or tension
- Low mood, tearfulness, or loss of interest and motivation
- Racing thoughts at night or early‑morning awakenings
- Physical symptoms: palpitations, GI upset, muscle tightness
Irritable for no reason. On edge. Not quite yourself. Midlife hormone shifts can magnify anxiety and flatten mood—especially when sleep is off. The good news: there are effective, tailored ways to feel steady and clear again.
Estrogen and progesterone modulate neurotransmitters like serotonin, norepinephrine, and GABA. As levels fluctuate and decline, the brain’s stress circuits become more reactive. Sleep disruption, hot flashes, life stress, and midlife role changes can create a feedback loop that sustains symptoms.
We address hot flashes and sleep first, because improving temperature control and restoring sleep often calms anxiety and lifts mood. This may include transdermal estradiol when appropriate or non‑hormonal options.
Evidence‑based choices can include certain SSRIs/SNRIs, which also help vasomotor symptoms for some women. We individualize selection, start low, and titrate thoughtfully to minimize side effects.
We coach practical techniques from CBT and mindfulness to reduce worry spirals, build emotional regulation, and steady routines. If you already have a therapist, we coordinate care.
We screen for thyroid issues, anemia/iron stores, B12, and medication effects. When appropriate, we coordinate with primary care or mental health specialists.
Short‑interval follow‑ups help us dial in dosing, timing, therapy skills, and lifestyle tools until symptoms are reliably controlled.
We review symptoms, sleep, stressors, health history, and potential contributors. Brief questionnaires help track progress.
A tailored mix of symptom control, targeted medication when useful, and skills‑based tools you can use immediately.
We adjust doses and routines over several weeks for steady mood, calmer days, and better sleep.
It can be both. Hormonal change can unmask or worsen mood symptoms. We assess severity and safety, then build a plan that fits your clinical picture.
For some perimenopausal women, transdermal estradiol can improve mood and reduce anxiety—especially when hot flashes and sleep problems are present. We individualize based on risks and preferences.
Many women notice improvements in sleep and reactivity within 1–2 weeks as we address hot flashes and routines; mood typically steadies further over 4–8 weeks with optimization.
We’ll review what you’re taking, dose, timing, and side effects—and coordinate any changes with your prescriber or manage adjustments if we’re prescribing.
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